ladybug4446:

ladybug4446

01-14-1965

38-49

United States

Texas, Houston

I would like to meet someone to spend time with and see where it goes. I am not looking for a husband but companionship with someone who likes some of the same things I do. I have been married twice and to my chagrin it did not work out. I do believe in love and lasting relationships. I am pretty outgoing and have an adventurous side. I prefer outgoing individuals who are open and comfortable with themselves. I own my own business and have been running it for 11 years. I have two girls that are under the ages of 8 and work full time. My dating life is separate from my life with my children and I will not introduce you to my kids unless something serious were happening and that would be way down the road somewhere LOL! I enjoy a variety of activities outdoor and in, but love anything to do with water and fire. I am not sure what else to write right now, so thanks for taking the time to read this.

There, I said it. I want it all- I want someone who is outgoing, NOT SHY, a giver, family oriented, spiritual, and who will dance with me without any prompting. I want someone who is compassionate, and respects me. I want passion, my best friend, someone who loves me for me, and who thinks I am fabulous! I am not into sarcasm, criticism of a negative nature and like to be treated with respect. I don't expect you to fill every need I have and am realistic enough to know that is not possible. The truth is I don't need a man to take care of my children or me. I want a man in my life because that is what I want. I would love for someone to want to take care of me because that is how they feel, but believe in partnerships and working together as a team. I don't believe one person in the relationship should carry the majority of the responsibilities alone. I am NOT looking to get married, but am not adverse to that somewhere down the road if that is where the road leads. I will tell you though that the road would be a long one for me to make that kind of committment. I feel I am worth it. I am outgoing, have an adventurous side, and am devoted to family. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy spending time with friends. I am a giver by nature and am open with my communication (whether you like it or not lol). I love dancing, going to the race track, motorcycles (although I don't have one), camping, swimming, billiards, pingpong, movies, etc. but also can enjoy the occasional opera or theatre. I enjoy traveling, spending time with my children which are first in my life. I would not introduce anyone I date to my children. My kids know my friends but I will not involve them in my dating life. (providing I get one lol ) I have two wonderful daughters 6 and 2 years old whom are the light of my life. I love children. I am the children's choir director at my church and teach bible study K-2. I am the homeroom mom for both of my girls as well. I also enjoy staying at home, putting on the fireplace, watching a good movie, reading a book, visiting with friends, swimming in the pool or sitting in the hot tub, a gambit of different things. I also enjoy going out with my friends a couple of times a month too. I LOVE TO TRY NEW THINGS and meet new people. I am cautious and am not willing to just jump into something quickly. I want a foundation of a friendship and build on that. I have been separated for almost 15 months and am hopeful to be divorced by March/April 2009. I am looking for a companion to spend time with and share mutual interests with. My free time is somewhat limited to every other weekend, Sat. nights, etc. due to work and my family schedule. If you are interested in getting to know me, then let me know! I believe that you should not lose who you are when you become involved with someone else and each person needs to have somewhat of their life independent of yours. I also believe that it takes considerable time to really get to know someone. I am willing to put the time and effort into getting to know someone as long as it is a two way street. If it is a one way street I won't be in your life for long! I know that I have a few extra pounds and have been working on that, for myself and my own health. Somehow the athlete I was went by the wayside with the past several years, but I am back on track. My two close friends who work for me and socialize with me describe me in the following way: At work: Perfectionist, Type A personality, works well under pressure, loyal and generous with her staff members, professionally at the top of her game. Out of work: Independent, caring, not afraid to experience new things, goes with the flow, socializer, a great planner, likes group activities, fits in well with all types of people, a good friend-has your back! Romantic Type: Passionate, hopeless romantic , believes in public displays of affection