TheRightChoice:

TheRightChoice

11-19-1970

35-45

United States

New York, Newburgh

***Have not been on this site in months ***Down to earth, Straight forward, loving and loyal to my family and friends. Independent, capable and very giving. I am supportive. I Give 110%. I always try and see both sides of a situation and know that I am not the only person with an opinion about a situation. I am more old fashioned and do believe in most of the "traditional" gender roles.. I would love to find a partner with the same ethics and morals as mine as well him being a MAN kinda rugged and sweet at the same time. With a strong sense of self. Someone I can respect as well as adore. I love to laugh and can be a clown!! I do have a serious side but mostly I am laid back and have a good time with friends and family.I love baseball -I don't play - my son does- and he is very good. I love to watch football as well, but sometimes can get loud while watching the Giants play :)( ok MOST times! lol!!) I am outgoing and not reserved in social gatherings.I stand up for the underdog, love almost all sports movies they get to me AND I cry every damn time I watch them.

I hope to find not just a partner but my best friend; Someone that I can feel comfortable with -- The person I can just sit and chat with like we have known each other forever,,,laugh and maybe bust on each other a little (in a cute joking way) Hopefully we make each other laugh..Ya know what I mean ,,When you are with someone and can be doing nothing or something ,, and no matter what ,,,it is just fun,, That is the best feeling isn't it? Just enjoying each others company? ** BUT ** there would also have to be that~~~~"I just want to kiss you!!" ~~~~ passion to go along with it... other wise I might as well just hang out with my best friend! and why the hell would I be on here? ! LOL!! So yes Attraction would have to go along with that So let's just be honest about it here and now... (and c'mon that is what you are looking for too)~~~~~I am hoping to meet someone that has enough respect for himself as well as me to always be honest and straight forward. I WILL give you that respect as well.~~~~~~~He will have a great sense of humor with a touch of sarcasm.( ok,,ok,, maybe more than a touch) ;)You don't have to Love everyone in the world but you do have to show ME that you care.... Ok ,,as I just read that it is screaming "neee-dddy!!!" AND Noooo,,, I am not. BUT what I mean by that is ,,, I don't want to have to guess what is going on,,, Just like you guys say "men aren't mind readers" Well,, neither are we women (atleast I'm not and have never claimed to be) .. I don't expect a mind reader either.I am not the type of woman that needs or likes to hear a lot of BS and will probably see through it. Just be sincere and you can never go wrong. I am actually real easy to get a long with. I am looking to find someone I click with that's all,, someone I am attracted to but has more to him than just being attractive...What kind of personality do I prefer and get along with? Someone who is confident but not very c o c k i e -- a little -- but not obnoxious about it. A little sarcasm-- not in a mean way-- just funny--- because I can be a little sarcastic myself and would require someone that picks up on that. He would be quick witted and ultimately very sweet (but maybe only I know it).Playful with a "boyish" quality but still takes care of his responsibilities. He is very masculine and strong --by strong I mean willed and emotionally. He isn't afraid of his feelings or showing them.I will tell you the truth now and not something I have admitted before..... you (who ever you are) will have to be Kind Of an "in your face" type of person with me (not off putting aggressive but more forward, I guess, is what I mean)--at least at first... I would say I am more reserved till I know or feel I know who you are and what you are about. You could say I am more old fashioned ,, in that I mean I feel it is the Man's place to ask the woman out. Oooohhh!! I know --the pressure! especially when there are probably "schools" of women on here just jumping at a date! Something worth having, though, never is that easy... lol! It is a little "old school" I know, but that is just how I am .. I am not worried though cause I am looking for quality not quantity.. and I am patient. :)