Feelosophy:

Feelosophy

12-28-1983

23-27

United States

Texas, San Antonio

Chivalry is only dead because women have been giving themselves away too easily. Real men do not like that, and real women do not do that. While I agree that people should present their personal best when possible, if all they are showing is their best cards for as long as they can against their normal reactions, the other person will undoubtedly fall under false impressions of who that person is. True colors will eventually show. There are times to pull out an Ace, and times to pull out a Face Card (at the beginning it is pleasant to show one or the other in good faith), but to have those two cards as the only ones showing for an indefinite period of time from the start, the other person will not truly know you. This is not about lowering expectations. It is about taking time to get to know someone, and through getting to know them, fall for them and have them fall for you...if potential is tangible. It is about having all cards out on the table, and still coming out successful in romance & relationships.

I want to meet someone who doesn't start this section out by stating "I'd like to meet (fill in the blank)"... If someone doesn't know their own self well enough, whoever they feel they'd like to meet is more of a mentor than an equal. There are no claims from my end that I currently know the recipe for life. However, without a doubt, there are necessary ingredients for a solid foundation in most any relationship. At the risk of sounding like a "buzzword" thesaurus of romantic criteria, I'll now leave you to figure me out as you see fit.