Batts:

Batts

08-01-1984

26-40

United States

Florida, Naples

From NY, living in SW FL- I'm lot of fun, but completely down to earth. In a lot of ways I'm looking for that road to new experiences. I've never really traveled, or have done anything spectacular; and my insides are exploding for the opposite! I want to live life! First and foremost, honesty is most important to me. I give it, and expect it in return. I have a quick sense of humor- and I love to laugh! I am an independent woman, but not the annoying 'I can do anything a man can do' type. I'm very sweet, and a lot of people call me cute, but I can also have that Badgirl- sexy edge to me. I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I love the outdoors, and keeping busy. I'm very eclectic-, love all types of music, (music is part of my SOUL! ) and movies, and even people. I love to read. Love getting lost in the ultra reality of a good book. I never judge people. I feel we all have our opinions on different things and we're entitled to them. The beauty of being individuals!! I'm very spiritual- but not what you would call dogmatic in any way. Have a huge heart; (maybe a little too huge)- love my friends and family-and my dog! I have two daughters who I absolutely love and adore. I'm not here looking for anything in particular- not even a serious relationship per say. Just seein' what out there. Been a while since I've been!! ;) I'm basically tired of the average guys that are going no where in life, that are just there, with no ambition or drive to do anything. (Something I seem to stumble on A LOT! ) I've learned that there are too many men out there these days that are looking for a woman to pretty much lean on. They want you to take care of them (which is fine) but they don't want to give anything in return.

First, I just want to say that I'm not even sure if I want to be in any relstionship at this time. My heart's been trampled on a bit, and I'm a little on the cautious side. I'm basically open to see who's out there. I definately don't want my past experience in "love" to keep me alone lol. With that being said- I guess you can say I'm rather picky. But, for good reason. I've always been the "caretaker" in a relationship. For example, I would meet a guy who had a rough up-bringing, (lost mom, dad a crack head- you know, basically a hard knock life) I'd feel bad, want to help.. my heart's gotten me in so much trouble lol. But than as time would go by, I would just be turned into a "crutch". I've always had to take care of everything; finances, living situations, family decisions.. ect.. and after a while you get worn down. What would I be looking for? Simple. Someone who has their ish together. Someone who has the motivation to continue to better themselves. Someone who can look at the future, and plan for it. A guy that can take action if somthing doesn't "go right". I think you can get the idea. :)